A good lover in the mind of a woman is not the one who can “often and for a long time”, but the one with whom she feels good. If a man wants his partner to experience the greatest pleasure, then mastering the Loveual technique is not a problem, there is nothing difficult and impossible in this.
The altruistic partner derives pleasure from the knowledge that he has given pleasure to the woman.
Polls of modern women show that they dislike male men who lash out like a primitive man and satisfy their Loveual needs, neglecting the sensations of a woman. In the West, such men are called “macho”. We do not have a common definition of this category of men. In Loveopathology, this is called a genital type of behaviour (from the word “genitals” – genitals, that is, fixing only on Loveual contact and ignoring the emotional and spiritual richness of the relationship between a man and a woman).
Tips from Women to be a Good Lover:
1. Forget about what you see in porn
The first rule of a good lover is: to forget everything that porn films teach. No, porn itself is even useful if it is a warm-up with a partner before the main game. It’s just that porn teaches the wrong things. The way it happens in porn videos does not happen in real life. You can draw an analogy with films about sports: you would not learn karate from the films of Bruce Lee, would you?
Let’s take the “Rider back forward” pose. This is ideal for the operator: the process is at a glance, you do not need to show miracles of acrobatics to capture a spicy look. In reality, not the best choice. Firstly, the penis does not reach the sensitive areas of the vagina. Secondly, it is inconvenient and even dangerous: there is a high risk of damaging the penis if the movement is too abrupt.
2. Take time to warm up
An important component of good Love is its duration. These are not hour-long bed contractions, as in porn. Such Love is boring, exhausting and annoying. The duration of Love does not depend on the duration of the penis in the vagina. Conversely, the ideal penetration time is 7–13 minutes. We are talking about the duration of the whole act of love.
It’s all about cause-and-effect relationships.
For a man, it’s “I’m horny, so I’m going to kiss and hug you.” For most women, the opposite is true: sensual contact causes desire.
A good prelude will help. Trying to “pick up the radio” by twisting your partner’s unfortunate nipples or eating her ear is not a prelude. A sensitive man knows that a woman, in addition to her breasts, has other erogenous zones.
A gentle kiss at the junction of the neck and shoulder can drive a woman crazy. Touching the inner thighs with your fingertips will make you tremble with passion. Take your time to start the main course, be patient and take the time to study the partner’s body. The result in the form of fireworks of orgasms is worth it.
3. Stop Thinking in Penis
Start thinking with your hands as well as with your tongue. The biggest mistake men make is to assume that quality Love requires only the right equipment, preferably bigger and thicker. This is enough for a woman to moan with pleasure, and her friends to envy. That’s what porn teaches.
In reality, a woman looks wistfully at the ceiling and hopes that you still decide to pay attention to her desires before you turn your back to the wall and fall asleep.
It’s men who need a penis to orgasm. For women, things may be different. According to some reports, less than 35% of women experience a purely vaginal orgasm. In most women (almost 80%), orgasm depends on oral and manual stimulation of the genitals. They do not care about the size and thickness of the penis, the speed and the strength of the friction.
There are no general recipes. One likes caresses with the tongue, the other – touching the fingers, and the third loves to be touched with the whole palm. Study the woman and, for heaven’s sake, cut and clean your nails.
4. Strive for variety
Love kills monotony and monotony. Remember the first months of life together – Love blew the roof. And not because you owned the poses from the one hundred and fifth page of the Kama Sutra. It’s all about novelty. The human brain needs fresh impressions, new experiences and stimuli. The honeymoon is the time when the brain filled the body with dopamine. Unfortunately, the brain quickly gets used to everything new.
Boredom comes too quickly, and what yesterday you both were delighted with, today causes a yawn.
Good Love needs variety. New positions, caresses, tricks, toys and devices – explore the topography of your own bodies and stimulate your brain with new experiences.
5. Talk to your partner
Quality Love does not depend on the penis but on the brain of a man. A good lover knows that Love is more than the joining of bodies. It’s flirting, compliments, teasing touches, and most importantly, words. Chat, discuss wants and needs, ask questions to find out what you like and what annoys you. After all, women love to talk, especially about themselves.